Unconditional Love
To be worthy of unconditional love is the craving of man. When we were first born that was something given out of abundance and there was no idea of insecurity. However as we age, become aware of our flaws and people around begin to love us based on our actions rather than who we are. The urge to feel the same was you did when you were younger is imminent and I believe people begin to seek it out in others. Acceptance starts with oneself this is something I got wrong, but nonetheless another person can be the means of accepting yourself initially. It makes sense that an insecure person, example me, craving unconditional love, cannot fathom accepting themselves, or loving themselves until another person whom they attribute good judgement and value in a hierarchical sense shows them acceptance. At that instant, it felt like I had no drawbacks or at least the errors in my character were minimal. I must admit I still crave that feeling of bliss, but this a junior level of self-love and I know moving forward it is not wise to love yourself through another person because that is not unconditional. The peace or sense of acceptance with yourself will always be an upper bound of what that person is comfortable accepting. In an ideal relationship this would be everything, but we live in reality. This also boosts your ability to love others deeply if you are okay with the flaws present in yourself, then you won’t have a tough time accepting flaws in others.
Like a limit that goes to 0 as it approaches infinity everything in our lives, moves to 0.
Our looks and health begin to dwindle, and even if we become wealthy, you can’t enjoy wealth without good health. People begin to die, the only thing that remains is sense of identity, which will also slowly erode. At this point, you may not even remember all the important things in life, but I bet one regret you would have is you could have loved yourself and the others around you, more than you did.
One person I especially want to thank is my Mother, who loved me unconditionally, and honestly if I ever amount to anything in life by anyone’s definition it is solely because of my mothers love.
Love is a gift you can give anyone freely and you never run out of it. The world is filled with broken children waiting for love.
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Aside : The application of math here might be a stretch but it helped me understand it a little better, but sorry if it doesn’t make sense.
